An unhappy child

Does your people pleasing come from a survival need?

If you google terms like people pleasers or people pleasing, you’ll find many articles on this topic, including definitions, symptoms, causes and how to stop being a people pleaser. In this post, I don’t intend to repeat what’s already out there. Instead, I’ll do an honest deep dive into my own compulsion to please people….

A picture of a depressed and confused child
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Lost Childhood Sculpture No. 3 – Secrets

Don’t underestimate the complexity of children’s emotions Children are supposed to be open books. They cry when they’re in pain. They laugh when they’re excited. Because they reveal their emotions so freely, we assume that they’re simple and transparent beings. This assumption makes us underestimate the complexity of our children’s minds. This boy in my…